Saint Valentine's Day is a holiday celebrated on February 14th
every year and is a tradition dating back to the early middle ages.
In North America and Europe, it is the traditional day on which lovers
express their love for each other by sending Valentine's cards, presenting
flowers, or offering confectionery.
Many people however follow these traditions without question, although others do
wonder about the history of Valentines Day.
As you may suspect the day is named after a Saint Valentine, however not one but
two.
Valentine of Rome, and Valentine of Terni.
These two were both recognized as martyrs by the Church.
They were killed
because of their religious beliefs, or rather because they refused to give up on
those beliefs.
They were both buried in the early middle ages at different locations on the Via
Flaminia, an old Roman Road linking Rome to Rimini in Italy, however some
sources also state it was also named the Ravenna road which connected
Rome to Ravenna.
One legend of St Valentine of Rome is recorded in the Legenda Aurea which states
that Valentine was persecuted as a Christian and interrogated by Roman
Emperor Claudius II in person after he was arrested for secretly performing
marriage ceremonies for young men. Prior to this the Emperor had passed a law
that forbid marriage, believing that married men did not make good soldiers
since they would always be thinking of their own family back home while they
were away at war, or on guard duties.
Claudius was impressed by Valentine and had a discussion with him, attempting to
get him to convert to Roman paganism in order to save his life, however
Valentine refused and tried to convert Claudius to Christianity instead.
Because of this, he was executed, and then buried on the Via Flaminia road.
Valentine of Terni became bishop of Interamna (modern Terni) around circa 197
and is said to have been killed during the persecution of Emperor Aurelian. He
is also buried on the Via Flaminia, but in a different location than Valentine
of Rome.
Interestingly these two Saints were also buried on the exact same day, February
14th, although in different years and locations.
Over the years after their deaths more and more churches begin to officially
recognize them for who they were, and what they did.
Now, what does this have to do with love - which Valentine's Day is so known
for?
Absolutely nothing.
The first recorded association of Valentine's Day with romantic love is in
Parlement of Foules, a poem written by Geoffrey Chaucer in the late
fourteenth centaury to honor the first anniversary of the engagement of King
Richard II of England to Anne of Bohemia.
For this was on seynt Volantynys day
Whan euery bryd comyth there to chese [choose]
his make [mate].
Another verse that relates to romantic love during Valentine's Day was written
by a Dame Elizabeth Brews in the 15th century.
And, cousin mine, upon Monday is Saint Valentine's
Day and every bird chooses himself a mate, and if it like you to come on
Thursday night, and make provision that you may abide till then, I trust to
God that ye shall speak to my husband and I shall pray that we may bring the
matter to a conclusion.
These popular verses further helped to create a romantic image of Valentine's
Day festival during the Middle Ages.
Lovers, therefore, began to celebrate Valentine's Day by expressing love to
their sweethearts with an exchange of love notes and simple gifts such as
flowers -
However many other traditions such as the giving of chocolates, or jewellery are
actually more modern in way that several large companies advertise that such
things are the "perfect gift" for a loved one and over time this became a
traditional valentines practice.
The earliest known record of a Valentine's Greeting was sent in the fifteenth century rondeau written by
Charles, Duke of Orleans to his "valentined" wife during his holding in the
Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt, 1415.
In the letter he wrote;
Je suis desja d'amour tanné
Ma tres doulce Valentinéeâ¦
Using the language of the law courts for the rituals of courtly love, a
"High Court of Love" was established in Paris on Valentine's Day in 1400,
shortly after the death of Geoffrey Chaucer. The court dealt with love
contracts, betrayals, and violence against women. Judges for the court were
selected by women on the basis of a poetry reading.
It was only after this Court was established that Valentine's Day became
associated with Romantic Love when the tradition of courtly love flourished
with the popularity growing from the poetry verses by Elizabeth and Geoffrey.